Staci + Stephen
Dear Birthparent, We want to express our heartfelt gratitude for taking the time to learn about us. We acknowledge the courage and strength it takes to consider adoption for your child. Whether you are certain about adoption or still exploring your options, we understand that this journey you're on is incredibly challenging.
If you do decide to create an adoption plan and select us as the adoptive parents, your child will not only be welcomed into our family but also embraced as an extension of yours. Your child will grow up knowing their adoption story, and they will be cherished and celebrated for their unique journey. Our hope is to create a warm and inclusive environment where your child feels a sense of belonging and connection, not only to us but also to you, their roots, and their heritage.
Most importantly, we want you to understand that we'll stand as their unwavering cheerleaders in life, wholeheartedly supporting them and ensuring they have every opportunity to pursue their dreams and passions. We pray that you find solace in whichever path you choose, reassured by the knowledge that your child will be surrounded by love, regardless of the decision made.
Why Adoption?
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Early in our journey, we felt a calling from God that adoption would be part of our story. As we began dating, we shared our dreams of a large family, with adoption nestled within those aspirations. Though uncertain of the exact path ahead, fast forward 14 years, and after enduring the heartache of multiple miscarriages, we confronted our grief and it became clear that adoption was the path meant for us to expand our family. Our faith has been our guiding light, reassuring us that this decision is part of God's plan for us.
Our daughter Isla's deep desire for a sibling has also strengthened our resolve to expand our family through adoption. Witnessing her longing for companionship has deepened our commitment to this journey. Drawing from our own experiences, we know the impact siblings can have in our lives, providing unwavering support and lifelong bonds. We look forward to giving Isla and her future sibling the chance to experience the joys of siblinghood together.
With hearts wide open and a profound sense of purpose, we eagerly embrace adoption becoming a cherished chapter in our family's narrative.
About Us
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Both of us have careers in the finance industry and our paths crossed at work. Stephen made his introduction by offering Staci some of his beloved fig newton cookies one day in the office, sparking a connection that has blossomed into 14 years of marriage.
Our family currently includes our elementary-aged daughter, Isla, who brings immense joy to our lives. Our weekends often find us tending to our homestead or hosting cookouts with our extended family. We have a passion for exploration and enjoy immersing ourselves in different cultures through travel. Ultimately, regardless of our location, our greatest joy comes from simply being together, sharing laughter, and creating cherished memories.
Our Favorites:
- Dessert - Staci: Cheesecake; Stephen: Pecan Pie; Isla: Chocolate Cake
- Super Hero - Staci: Black Panther; Stephen: The Hulk; Isla: Rey (Star Wars)
- Movie - Staci: Harry Potter; Stephen: Any Hallmark (not ashamed); Isla: Frozen
- Musical - Staci: Wicked; Stephen: Lion King; Isla: Frozen
- Vacation - Staci: Walt Disney World; Stephen: Annual Family Beach Trip; Isla: Hawaii
Meet Stephen
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Stephen's heart is truly one of the most generous I've ever known. He didn't have much growing up, but his determination to turn things around led him to put himself through college, becoming the first in his family to earn a degree. Witnessing his journey has only deepened my admiration for him and his unwavering commitment to overcoming obstacles. His experiences have shaped him into someone with an incredible passion for lifting others up and supporting in ways he wish he had been. Even though he works in finance, he's a handyman at heart, fixing things around the house or with our cars like a pro, he is always tinkering with something that needs fixed. You won't catch him lounging around--whether it's working around the farm or hanging out with family and friends, he's always on the move, making the most of every moment. (by Staci)
Meet Staci
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Everyone who knows Staci would tell you she's not just kind and caring, but also an incredible listener, smart, and a ton of fun to be around. She has this natural ability to bring joy to others. Her love for travel is infectious, and she enjoys nothing more than exploring new places with family and friends by her side. Staci's positivity is a constant source of motivation for our family and everyone she encounters. Add to that her talent for making delicious homemade meals and her warm smile, it's a bonus to her already amazing personality! (by Stephen)
Meet Isla
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Introducing our vibrant daughter, Isla! With boundless energy that mirrors her father's, she thrives in the outdoors, exploring every nook and cranny of our homestead. From tending to our garden to caring for our animals, Isla loves the freedom of farm life. But her zest doesn't stop there--she's also a budding performer, delighting us with impromptu theatrical displays fueled by her vivid imagination. She eagerly dives into every activity and experience that comes her way. From travel adventures to swimming, and theater performances to arts and crafts, Isla's curiosity and passion know no limits.
Yet, beyond her adventurous spirit, what truly sets Isla apart is her enormous, compassionate heart--a quality that promises she'll be an incredible sister to her future sibling.
Our Animal Family
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Our furry family member, Stella the Australian Sheppard, brings endless cuddles and watches over our home. Mirroring the rest of our family, she is extremely affectionate and full of high energy levels.
We also share our space with Oscar our barn cat who helps keep the mice away, and a flock of chickens supplying us with farm-fresh eggs.
Extended Family
Family and friends hold a significant place in our hearts. Steve has two brothers and a twin sister, while Staci has a brother and sister. We also have a close-knit circle of friends and extended family. Fortunately, our families reside nearby, affording us the opportunity to connect frequently. We treasure our time together during major holidays, and also go on amazing adventures together, exploring destinations far and wide. Some of our cherished family rituals are our annual beach trips to the Outer Banks, campouts during the fall, and the oh so sweet Christmas cookie baking extravaganza.
Living adjacent to Staci's parents, we've made Friday night movies and cozy campfires a beloved weekly tradition.
Our Homestead
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A few years ago, we seized the opportunity to purchase the farmhouse previously owned by Staci's grandparents. Now we're thrilled to raise our own family in the same tight-knit community where Staci grew up. Our charming two-story brick farmhouse boasts four bedrooms and is surrounded by picturesque fields, streams, and lush woods. Our yard features a play set for endless outdoor adventures, with a clear view of Staci's parents' house just across the field.
Just a stone's throw away from our doorstep lies a recreational park featuring ball fields, walking trails, basketball courts, and a skate park--a perfect destination for family fun. While we love the serene country life, we also appreciate the convenience of nearby towns offering shopping and cultural activities.
The Many Adventures
We're a small-town family with a big passion for exploring the world. Our journey began on our honeymoon in Greece, and ever since, we've been hooked. Welcoming Isla and our future child(ren) into our lives isn't slowing us down; it's just expanding our travel party. We've even had the joy of sharing our adventures with Staci's family along the way. Always dreaming of our next big adventure, we love experiencing new places through the eyes of locals, venturing off the beaten path, and immersing ourselves in the richness of different cultures.
As you can see in some of the photos, we embrace our playful side, never shying away from being a little goofy and relishing the simple joys of life wherever our travels take us.
Oh, the places you'll go! There is fun to be done! - Dr. SuessThis is not a goodbye...this is a thank you. - Nicholas Sparks
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As we reach the final page of this book, we're reminded that this is not the end, but rather the beginning of a journey filled with new chapters waiting to unfold. Instead of bidding farewell with "In Closing," we want to impart a message of hope and possibility. Your strength and courage inspire us deeply, and we feel honored to have shared our story with you.
We understand that the decision to search for adoptive parents is a challenging and emotional journey. Your bravery in navigating this path is admirable. We want you to know we want to stand beside you as partners in this beautiful, complicated journey. We pray that our connection marks the start of something truly extraordinary.